Speaking to the Future? Really? How do we do that?
Actually, I’m doing it now. And if you leave comments, you are too. Leaving a scratch on the world isn’t as difficult as it you would think. At least it isn’t now. In the digital age, information is captured. Every time I post something here, the reader is affected one way or the other by what is left here. They can think, “Wow! I learned something there!” or they can nod their head in agreement or put it aside as something as something they don’t feel works for them.
But either way, they are affected. It has entered their gray matter. I suppose it’s food for thought. I’d like to think of it that way. So what do I mean by “Speaking to the Future?”
A few years back Susan Friedman advised me to stick to my knitting. She explained to me that what she does is teach applied behavior analysis and positive reinforcement training and as long as she is able to teach that, she really doesn’t care about the the “window dressing” of the people who are learning from her and what they do, what their model is, their approach to aviculture or their current stature in the world. She simply doesn’t care. She teaches what she knows and what she believes in. Well, that’s what I took away from our discussion.
Susan Friedman with Janet Holt Hilton
What is important to her is her agenda. I have watched Susan teach, as well as having seen photos of Susan teaching in all kinds of places: In tents, in classrooms, in a flight enclosure, even in a living room. What matters to her is that she is getting across what she believes in. I admire that. To Susan, it’s about the work. It’s about her passion and her agenda.
In other words, it’s about the information. Doesn’t matter who uses it as long as it’s used the way in which it was intended. She began something years ago in the world of birds and the legacy of this introduction will live on as will her articles, and all of the work she put out to make a world of difference in aviculture. She changed things. And the best part? She will continue to change things decades from now. Her work will indeed live on.
Every time I write something and publish it, I try to keep in mind that somehow, this work might change the world. I ask myself. “Will this somehow make things better? Is it moving the world forward in some manner? Will it improve the world for birds and for people?”
I believe that with the advent of social media, we need to keep this in mind whenever we post anything whether it’s on Facebook, or Twitter or in a chat group. If whatever you said, or posted or wrote might possibly effect the future, you might be a bit more careful about your actions. The way I look at it, it has a great bit to do with it. You may have only affected one person and you might not even know how. But everyone has the ability to change a moment, a life, a situation or even an entire way of doing things. Keep that in mind and you may change how you do things. I asked friends on Facebook this question:
If You could speak to the future: The future of parrot caregivers, the rescuers, the adoption people and the families with birds who will come long after we are gone, what would you say? What advice would you give them?
I got some interesting answers. Here are a few:
Sher Buckner volunteering and hard at work for birds.
Sher Buckner: Educate yourselves as much as possible, first and foremost. Find out how to give great care, and pass it on to others. Donate as much of your time as possible to help parrots, if that’s your passion. Volunteer with a vet to learn more. Make provisions for what’s going to happen to your own pets if you don’t outlive them. Don’t trust HSUS and other groups trying to wipe out breeding and pet ownership. Research any pending legislation to see what it actually accomplishes (or doesn’t), related to parrots. Donate and help your LOCAL shelters and rescues. Join a group like AFA that’s monitoring legislation, promoting responsible ownership and breeding, etc., and help conservation projects for birds in the wild, such as ecotourism which provides jobs AND educates locals about the importance of protecting species. Also support separating wild birds from domestic when it comes to endangered species legislation – they are so far apart these days (i.e., some birds endangered in the wild that are NOT endangered in captivity in the U.S.), it makes no sense to combine them. But educating yourself as much as you can should be first and foremost – health, diet, training, habits, history, etc. Don’t get a pet unless you have the time and energy to give it a wonderful home!
Billie Faye King: STOP birds being taken out of the wild for human pets!!!
Megan Burnham-Gerow: Read, learn, find other bird friends, and most of all…make plans for your feathered kid’s future when you’re gone! Don’t trust that somebody in the family will want them.
David Hull: Advocate for requiring an expensive license to keep birds. This would discourage spur of the moment decisions and at least have humans educated.
Jamie Looking Gorgeous…
Jamie Whittaker: I would say that if you still have birds it’s because the bird people were finally able to bury their various hatchets and start working together for the future of birds. If they don’t have birds in the future I would say “I am truly sorry, – we tried, but we didn’t try hard enough”
Tango Cash Zimmerman: Can you handle an eternal 2 year old for 25-70 years depending on the species?
Writer, Speaker and Retailer, Lisa Bono
Lisa Bono: It’s important to welcome the young people into aviculture. They are our future. Should one come in the store, I make sure I spend time talking with them and encouraging them. When I had my club, I always made it fun for them to participate and gave them jobs to do so they felt like they could make a difference. I am happy to see several of them grow up to share my passion.
Part 2 will be coming along. Many people responded to my question!
February 27, 2013 at 1:36 pm
So true and wise! Great post! 🙂
Kristen
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February 27, 2013 at 1:44 pm
Your blogs always make me think and I love them for doing that. Thank you.
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February 27, 2013 at 2:13 pm
We have come in, some ways, a long way in how we “treat” our parrots….YET….we have set some of them back in the wild to the brink of extinction….how thoughtless of us…and the sad fact the ones we have as our pets will never know what it is like to be free….and are mistreated/fed foods that harm their bodies….all for “our” pleasure to have….at least, give the birds you have with you the LARGEST area you can afford, foods that are healthy for them and protect them the very best you can from others that will harm them….
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February 27, 2013 at 3:10 pm
I would tell a future parrot person to educate themselves as much as possible. No matter how much they learn never believe you know it all and do not need to continue your education. Aviculture is always changing and evolving. New things are learned every day. Then pass it on in every way you can about everything you can from conservation to nutrition. Never criticize another parrot person. You will make them shy away. Gently lead them into the light of giving their parrot the best life possible. If you see something wrong in the way they keep their parrot do not jump all over them, suggest changes and then tell them why it helps their birds. Last if you own a parrot give something to the rescue community. Whether it be time, money or a good word. You owe it to your bird!
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February 27, 2013 at 3:52 pm
When I got my first parrot, the store I got him from would not let me take him home right away. They made me come to the store and learn how to feed him, want to feed him and how to take care of him. When they were sure I had basic parrot care down, Mr. Peabody came home.
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February 27, 2013 at 5:21 pm
I never fail to miss an opportunity to educate my grand children and their peers on responsible parrot ownership and all that it entails [barring things that I might not know myself yet even though I have had companion parrots for about 10 years now. I have visited their individual schools with some of my flock and try to take them along to other parrot events as well. I know I will never be able to teach them everything as our future guardians of the birds, because I believe not a single day goes by that I myself do not learn something new from another parrot lover that is willing to share their knowledge. We all still have a long ways to go as we are still in the “infancy of learning”. And just observing my own birds I learn an awful lot. I am multi-lingual already [but my proudest achievement is to say that I understand a bit of “parrotfish”. Pay close attention and every parrot guardian can and will learn that language [as long as they are the kind who look at their birds as the intelligent creatures that they are.
Thank you Patricia for always giving me something to think about [this time it was about my footprint for the future]
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February 27, 2013 at 5:35 pm
Learn everything you can. Realize that this is truly a lifelong committment. Make provisions for them after you’re gone. Take care of them the very best way you can and be open to educating yourself as much as possible. Don’t expand your flock to any more than you can really enjoy and spend quality time with. But most importantly, Love them. Allow them to be themselves. Sure it’s great that they learn to talk and do tricks and such, but the joy of your parrot’s spontaneous vocalizing is just that — joy. Yes, it’s noisy. Yes, they’re messy. Yes, they bite. But the relationship you can have with a parrot is unlike anything else. 30 years later, Buster and Greybird both still amaze me and it’s nothing they were “trained” to do. Heck, if anything, I’m the one who got trained … you don’t see them getting up in the night to check on me or early on weekends and holidays to bring me breakfast at regular time do you?? And I’m with Patricia … I hate the phrase, “does it talk?” followed closely by “what does it say?” Birds will teach you the simple joy of just being. I wouldn’t have it any other way. For me, life without them just doesn’t bear thinking about.
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February 27, 2013 at 5:43 pm
I don’t have a bird…………but I have some bird friends 🙂
My comment is please don’t buy, adopt one who needs you, there seem to be so many! And DO CHOP!
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February 28, 2013 at 4:15 am
Sandy, thank you. In spite of you not having a bird I think you have spoken some of the most important words to carry us through to the future and every time even just one bird gets adopted you have made a major contribution to the Avian Community. Thank you
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